I can't agree more. There's nothing like putting pressure on someone being the "one". No one can measure up to that. Sometimes, people change too. It is rare to be able to adapt in a relationship and grow together. So, without a test run, there's no way to know that you can. People work together in strange ways, someone you may not think can work with you, might be able to.. so it's more about fit than anything. Thank you for this. I seem to be bookmarking a lot of your articles lately. :) Love your writing as always!